dating a trucker

[candy89]

my man is a trucker and no he is not like that at all he calls everyday to make sure im ok most off them are good men you just found the bad one keep looking

candy89

[gearwitch (deleted)]

I am totally in disagreement with that statement that ALL truck drivers (the males) cheat. If you are THAT suspicious of them then perhaps you need to find another man in another profession. But first and foremost, make sure you take care of your homework when your man is at home. My experience has been if you are the woman you should be to your man he's not going to cheat, period! I would suggest you really do some soul searching and stop placing truck drivers in toto as ruthless ------ scumbags.

And by the way, I see the original post is very old. If the person who posted this is still around please post your latest thoughts on the matter. I'd like to hear what progress you've made in your life.

[bikergal2 (deleted)]

`It's hard to really date a trucker,If they are otr and away four weeks at a time. To really get to know them you have to go "live" with them on the truck. Now if you meet a guy that works at home deot would you go live with him after a couple of months of talking. I think this is why a lot of realtionshis in trucking fail. That and the long eriods being aart. I could never be a truckers wife at home. I like to see my artner every day lol

[sweetcheekd1968 (deleted)]

I was a fool for a trucker too. i believed him when he said the woman he was staying with knew he didn't love her. when we first started talking he was in the middle of a divorce and was talking to 2 other women besides me. then he hurt his back and the woman he was talking to took him in and he had to have back surgery. almost a year later he contacts me saying he was back otr . He said he felt obligated to this woman and he coldnt hurt her after she took him in and took care of him. He said she knew he would never marry again and that he wasnt exclusive with her. She needed surgery and he had to be there for her as she was for him. I believed him because i wanted so badly to believe in him. I fell in love with him and he played me. the --- was amazing and free. we had a connection hat i never felt before.I couldnt see how anyone could fake what we shared. I couldn't believe it was all a lie. He knew just how to do everything perfectly with me. so right and real. or so i thought.every passionate fiery kiss and touch was so perfect. I believed him when after 2 years he told me he loved me and wanted only me. He said he couldnt abandon her and he didnt want to hurt her but that he didnt love her.
I believed him because i loved him and didnt want to admit he was a snake liar cheat womanizing using pig. . but the truth came out when i saw his facebook page with her pic as his fiancee.It has been 8 months since and still i miss him so much. but t was my own fault for letting him sucker me. I dont think all men are like him or all truckers are like him. But when it came out i was the whore ---- lot lizard and many awful names he called me. All because i trusted a pig liar. i found out his marriage ended because of his cheating and he was doing 4 or more women as well as me and her. But i am the whore he says. i was a fool yes. and blind but i know he will gt everything he deserves because we all get back what we give out.but like i told his so called fiancee when she asked me a few months ago if i was still with him.... [ if u have to ask if hes's cheating then u already know the answer. ] He thinks what he does is ok . as long as he not on the receiving end its ok.
the truth is if a man i going to cheat he will. whether he a trucker, cook, whatever.im not going to waste time calling and trying t catch him. All secrets come to light in time anyway. its just a matter of time

[loveflatbeding (deleted)]

`Well sweetcheekd1968, I am truly sry to hear all that. But I am glad to hear the not all guys and not all truckers are that way part. We are not. Some times it's the person at home doing the cheating. It takes a special kinda person to be with a trucker faithfully. But in today's world it seems it takes a special kind of person to be faithful at all.