male / female co-drivers.

[bentnickel (deleted)]

'i'm having a difficult time finding a female co-driver.
i'm not saying that --- would be required. i just don't like teaming with other guys. i do like sex, and i do have a very high --- drive, but i see it as a separate issue.

i think most women are assuming that i a) am mainly looking for sex, b) am just a lonely guy, or c) am trying to force a relationship into happening.

first, the --- thing.

i will admit that if i had a female co-driver that wanted to have --- with me, i would do it with her... for several reasons.
first, i'm very good at it (and so humble, too, right?), and it would keep her from having to chase guys.
second, it would keep me from having to chase women.
third, although i can't have --- with any woman just for the sake of having sex, but i can have --- with a woman who is a friend, and if she's a co-driver, he's probably also a friend.

but the important part of a co-drver team is friendship, and trying to push --- on someone who didn't really want it, would be destroying the friendship, and chasing away the co-driver.

now, the lonely guy thing...

ok. perhaps my soul is lonely, having gone through several marriages out here on the road, but i do have lady friends i can (and do) talk to, and when i'm traveling through the eareas they live in, i can (and do) stop off and visit with them. i'm honest with any woman i date about any other woman i date, so there's no reason that having a female in the truck with me would change that, unless i managed to end up developing an exclusive and committed relationship with my co-driver.

finally, about forcing a relationship. yes, i'd love to meet the perfect soul-mate out here, but i'm not going to have that with anyone that i pressure into a relationship. if it happens, that's great. if it doesn't, then there's no reason why we can't just go along at whatever our relationship level has determined itself to be.