Tholmaebruton63, 61

I am a intelligent black female looking for a black male that I can match wits with. I am 5'5' and want someone with similar or better built. I am looking for someone who is willing to become friends first and then would go into a relationship later. Someone that I could have fun with and relax with. I have strange office hours-I work overnight-and have only the weekends to "kick it" so would like someone who is understanding of those hours. I love to dance and to read. I try to go dancing at least once a month and I do drink socially. I want a man that his word is his bond and he keeps it. Someone that is able to talk and listen to me. Someone who challenges me in every way. I don't play the "dating game" very well so I just don't play at all. I am a very loving person and would love it if u are the same.